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Wednesday, April 23, 2014

15 Month Update

Well, it's hard to believe, but this big guy turned 15 months old last week! (ok, almost  weeks ago at this point...woops)


He is quite the little spitfire, but also a big sweetheart. He is sometimes way too much of a big kid for his own good, and other times, the sweet little baby that I think he should be. As he learns and grows, he's definitely been a bit more of a challenge than the twins in some ways.

Here's what's up with this 15 month old:

Weight: 24lbs

Height: 31 1/2 inches

Favorite activities: throwing food, throwing balls, biting people, hitting/kicking ANYTHING, making a mess out of EVERYTHING.

Least favorite activities: sleeping...can someone make this kid sleep? I'm starting to think he's just good with less than an hour nap and 8ish hours at night. I have been trying to force him on the twins schedule with very little success.
Lucky for him, he's cute when he crashes.

New tricks: Walking backwards quickly, legit jogging (not just a fast shuffle), trying to jump and has gotten both feet off the ground a time or 2, climbing up the ladders at the park, finally saying a few words!

Words: ball, bubbles, mama, dada, yack (for snack...because he eats...alot), more, ready-set-go, thank you (sounds more like tattoo)

Eats: more than the twins...combined. No seriously, he eats EVERYTHING. Still nurses 2x a day and I'm trying to get him down to just before bed before we move. No plans to 100% wean him anytime soon, honestly I'd be fine with once a day for another year as long as he learns to stop putting his hands down my shirt every time I hold him. Or bite me when I turn him down. As you can tell, we have some behavior issues.



Biggest challenges: His aggressive behavior is far worse than anything I had to deal with when the twins were this age, or at all actually. I think because they're bigger he doesn't understand when they might be "helping him" they're not pushing him. He often shoves them right back, maybe to show them he doesn't like to be pushed around, but hopefully as his language gets better he'll start understanding a bit better. Even Ben's "hugs" are pretty aggressive. He is always throwing things and slapping them away if it's not what he wants. If you don't hold him when he wants held, he throws some nasty tantrums and will throw things around, kick/bite/hit anyone who comes near him, and overall, just act terribly. He also bites a lot, usually it's just me, but now that he's playing with kids more I"m hoping he doesn't sink his teeth into another kid! I'm not 100% sure how to handle it, and I'm hoping it's just a phase, but we'll see as the days go on. He still hasn't really hurt anyone and isn't rubbing off on the twins so we'll see what we can do to get him to understand
he can't be acting all crazy when he doesn't get what he wants. The hard life of being the 3rd child I guess.


Overall, he's quite a happy, fun kid. He loves to eat and is happiest after he's well fed (who can blame him?). He loves playing in the backyard and climbing on our 2 playhouse things with the twins. He LOVES slides and playing at the parks. He is doing a great job at reaching his goal of being "caught up" to the twins. He loves to play cars with Jack and, sometimes, is mild mannered enough to earn an invitation to a tea party with Amelia. He is pointing out colors and shapes and loves to watch the alphabet shows. I'm pretty sure he'll know letters/numbers/colors as well as the twins in a few weeks. Definitely one of the biggest benefits to having them all so close in age is how much more he's exposed to more "advanced" things. I remember doing some colors and numbers with the twins when they were little but it's a lot more fun to do with them now that they really interact with me. Ben is usually around so he gets to play too and has gotten into the learning games a lot. Down side: he watches a lot more TV than the twins did at this age, but the twins are allowed to watch certain shows and love a good pizza and movie night so I can't lock Ben in the other room to avoid screen time with him.

We'll see what next month has in store for this wild and crazy little boy ;)


Tuesday, January 14, 2014

My Baby Isn't A Baby Anymore

I'm heartbroken to say that I don't have any babies in the house anymore.

My baby boy turned 1 on Sunday and I've been in denial ever since.

No joke. I'm struggling with this first birthday!

I think being pregnant with Ben when we celebrated the twins' first birthday made it bearable. With no baby P's in our near future, I'm a little heartbroken to see my baby grow up. He also seems to be growing up so much faster than the twins did! How is he 1 already?

So what did we do to celebrate our big guy?

We kicked off our day with birthday pancakes!
aka whole wheat banana pancakes with sprinkles in it. The twins were a little jealous they didn't get a candle but came around when they realized they had sprinkles in their pancakes too.

Then we decided to do a photo shoot!



Seriously, is there a cuter 1 year old? I'm biased, but I dare to say not ;)

We did cake with the family later that night and Ben loved a day being the center of attention. Sometimes it stinks being the baby of the family. Sorry buddy but I promise your birthday will always be special! We are having a party with our friends on Saturday so I'm happy he gets another special day for his birthday ;)

So what's Benny Boy up to at the ripe old age of 1?

He's been taking steps since around 10 months, right before Christmas he became a legit walker and hasn't looked back. Now he's practically running. If only I could get him to run in the same direction as both twins, that would make my life a little easier.

Tooth count: 8 in, 2 molars should be cutting through any day now and 2 more are on the way. It's not pretty
Weight: 23lbs on the dot
Height: 30 1/2inches
Clothes: Comfortably in 18 month clothes, can fit anywhere up to 3t though (trust me, I've accidentally put him in Jack's clothes more than once)
Favorite food: sweet potatoes, chicken nuggets and strawberries
Least favorite food: Anything green. I'll turn him to the dark side eventually.
Favorite toy: Anything cars and trains...which poses quite a challenge since those are also Jack's favorite and they don't always share well together.
Favorite time of the day: When the twins are napping and he has free range on the house.
Sleeps: Never. Seriously. He's worse than Jack. Please someone teach my baby how to sleep.

He still nurses 3 times a day and once at night. I'm trying to get rid of that night feeding, but it isn't going well. I am proud that Ben has gone an entire year without a single bottle and no formula. He's been such a good eater, we've had a good experience nursing with very little trouble (except one bad episode of milk blisters). It's been nice to not have to worry about pumping, bottles, milk supply, blah blah blah that I had with the twins so things have been much more pleasant this time around.

Ben seems interested in talking and signing so I'm excited to see his language skills blossom over the next few months. The twins really took off with language around 18 months so I'm sure I'll have more to share on that front in a few more months.

Thank you everyone for the well wishes for my baby's birthday!

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